Marriage

The more and more I talk to people about marriage the more I am fearful. It amazed me when I heard years ago that the divorce rate was 50%, but as I've gotten older I understand how easily that can happen. Marriage is a LOT of work. It seems like it is an ongoing work in progress. The sad thing is, many couples put on a happy face in the midst of horrible circumstances. Why is marriage portrayed as some glorious, everything will be wonderful when you tie the knot, when that might not be true. Don't get me wrong, I do want to get married, but I think I am more aware that this union is a lot of work and requires a lot of honesty, trust, good communication, and patience.